Mediator Tips

Work Relationships and the 4-phase model

For various reasons, work relationships can fall apart. More and more, businesses have been hiring mediators to resolve these disputes in order to try and re-develop a good working relationship between the co-workers while also making sure that both sides are satisfied with the outcome.

Mediators who undertake this task have been known to use the 4-phase model (it is very similar to the model taught by the Center). It works like this:

1. In phase one, the disputants tell their story directly to the mediator. At this point, neither has contact with the other. The mediator uses reflective listening to make the party feel heard and tries to elicit the underlying issues.
2. In phase two, the disputants come face to face and listen to one another (hopefully in a respectful way). This is done to start developing a better relationship between the parties by helping each understand the other.
3. In phase three, the mediator summarizes the perspectives. He helps to let the parties realize the new relationship they have built.
4. In phase four, the disputants try to reach a resolution through brainstorming.